EVERY CHILD IS A BLESSING

On the journey to Penang, I was feeling amaze for not having had deep nausea and my child loves Penang food! My hubby and I were rather surprised. So sooner I brought my pink book to be transferred to Govt Penang Clinic near my home for progress checkups. And I was able to get my health checkup for second time. Since my mom has much worried, that is why I will have my longer stay with family.

My mom and I went to hosp. private, GMC for the further checkup whole progress up. The result is still the same. So my breast surgeon doctor, Ms.Teh has had explained to us clearly. Then I had biospy minor surgical to take the sample on my right breast when I was just barely at about 4-5 months pregnant. The surgical took me within 30 minutes done. After 2 weeks later, I was told by the Dr. that it is benign which is not harmful in effect. Even though both breasts have had cysts. But they will be going away later. What a good relieve all to us. 

I was taking flight home back to KL to get my stuff to be done when I was around 18-21 weeks during 2nd trimester. Being a new mommy to be may be is a new little strange to me as I am experiencing this whole new progress. He he. My baby has been teaching me to understand a child's love. I do feel his movements and kicking. At a time, baby kicks so hard I told my hubby to feel it. He was so in good excitement and really enjoying our child's love. 

Back to Penang as usual, I was quite busy with everything. Regular checkups with hosp and clinic have quite tired me much. For this baby's sake, I am doing it for goodness to the both of us. At clinic, I got 'bla..bla...' from nurses and dr on health issue. I am forced to take glucose drink tests which I hate it. No choice, right? And I am also monitoring on food intakes, taking supplements and it is not much fun at all. I now understand being 9 months pregnant is not easy for most of women to endure everything.

My family and relatives everyone is so exciting to meet my child and I am glad to be able to bring my child's little joyous to the family. 

This child is indeed a blessing to all of us, especially me and my love.

God's precious child.  

 

 

It is a child blessing.

 Last year around in the end of July 2016, I have had few cysts on both breasts and stomach and also endometrium thickness when I made a check up at a clinic, Kelana Jaya which is recommended by my cousin after I had my previous check up at goverment Shah Alam Hospital. The pain has caused me so much especially at my stomach area, it was like a very heavy stomach twist up so hard that hits me. Even though I have gastric. It was not like gastric pain but this one was a very painful feeling. My period has not came up that since too.. almost close to 2 momths. I was in a little worried.

So I have zero knowledge about what is cyst and endometrium thickness. Hence, my cousin has explained to me, I was hardly to understand. I was determined to know what it is the causes. I what-sapped my mom and she did not so sure about it. So I went to google to find the definitions. To my own relieve, I came to understand that cyst and endometrium thickness are common in the among of women. And then my doctors did not say anything on my case unnecessarily to remove cysts. I have no idea at all. I have had heavy period which that causes me to have the blood clot...imagine it? I never experienced such as this. That's why I have endometrium thickness.

And I crossed this FaceBook page calls "Mommies Wellness Centre" and "Menstrual Pro Rahsia Ajaib". They are same centres. After I have much followed up with their reviews on their products. Most of them women get pregnant successfully. It is great to know all of them are wanting for a child. But to me, I am focusing more on my health case, if they can help me to disappear my cysts without removing them. My husband gets me to there if they can help me. 

At the Mommies Wellness Centre at Seri Kembangan, I have asked and checked with Dr. Kawitha who is a gynae doctor and showed her my ultrasound results. She has recommended me to take Menstrual Pro (MP) it will helps me to cleanse my uterus not my breasts. So I tried it even though it is a Malay herbs and I believe it has good Malay ingredients. And I even checked the ingredients and surprised they are good for body health. I am told most women have tried Menstrual Pro (MP) from 2 bottles to 6 bottles. That means it takes you around 2 weeks to 3 months. 

RM 80 per bottle that comes with free shaker and book guide.

I have tried this MP product for 2 1/2 weeks and I even loved it. Like one of good supplement I have had. It tasted like orange vitamin juice. quite delicious. Drank before breakie and one before sleep at night in each day.  

In the bottle, they even provide spoon. Take 2 scoops to mix with lukewarm water 

After that, I felt discomfort and what-sapped one of the nurses at the centre. I am told to stop it for a while. I did. The following days I did not feeling quite well which leaves me to think of my condition what was wrong with me. I even felt like want to fall sick. I took one day MC, went to see doctor and I had URTI. URTI stands for Upper Respiratory Tract Infections. I had it once when I was in my 20s. I knew how it feels like. So I told my hubby I have had no appetites most of time. I often had quite few passing motions. I ate small meal portions most of time. My stomach has hurted sometimes at nights. It was pushing me ups and downs. I vomited. Then the few days next, I was going back to office my throat did not feel want to eat anything and whenever there is food I could not stand with the smell. I felt like want to vomit at all time. My hubby has noticed that it was not a normal for me. So we both have decided to take up UPT test soon (urine pregnancy test) as my period has not came for 2 months already. It has worried us. Like usual, I was keeping myself to work at office. At work, I have tried to stand much as long as I can. When I carried a box for colleague's requirement to find material, I sat like in the squat way and I felt my tummy hurts but it did not bother me at all.  So after my working hour, I have asked my hubby to bring me to Watson.

We bought 2 UPTs and Gavison Liquid to relieve my tummy. Upon on reaching home, I was quickly taking one of the UPT. I was so much patient and anxiety at the same too. When the UPT test has finally come to its result. There I saw a red line at the T (test) and another a red line at the C (control). I knew I was in quite nervous, did not going to believe it at all - 2 red lines! POSITIVE. In a quiet moment, hubby was asking me what is the result. I said 2, showed him the UPT. He was asking me is it positive and I said yes. We both were surprised and shocked.  And there my tummy has ached me again. My hubby has asked me to re-confirm again on taking the 2nd UPT in the next day. The result was also positive.

1st UPT Test (DiscloSure Brand) RM 5.30

2nd UPT Test

Then in the couple of weeks later, we both went to clinic Sec. 19 to see a doctor for health check up. I was supposed to follow up on my regular blood pressure. I told doctor about my condition. So doctor has moved me to mother & child department for more observation. I was asked to do blood / urine tests and even opened a pink book for pregnancy record. Finally I got to see a doctor and explained my condition. Doctor then examined me on ultrasound scan and told me it is a baby. I said..., "what....a baby?", "are you sure it is a baby?" She said yes. I said wait, I had cyst and endometrium thickness. She said huh, and she checked on my tummy again. She said there was no cyst and endometrium thickness at all! What she has checked is a baby! I was kinda in shock and could not believe it. Moreover my baby is already 8 weeks old (2 months)!. Doctor gave me the baby scan picture.
I told my hubby and he was in surprise and shock too. He was even loss for word. However, this little tiny has in my womb I am so blessed by God. God has given us this little gift.
 

  
To keep on following up on my pregnancy health with doctor, i was infected again with URTI. Doctor has asked me to Shah Alam Hospital to receive water sodium so I will feel much better then. During the month of Sept, I could not focus well on working and hard to keep balance I was taking up. I was also having had deep nausea. I vomited 15 times in per day. And sometimes at a time, I vomited 8-10 times in per day most of the days. So much bad swing mood I was having had. I even caught up in a heavy cough for a week! It was so tough for me. No appetite at all!

I could not force myself up to continue to work and I know I need a good a lot of rest according to my health. Thus, I have resigned from work. Since that, I have been so much vomiting until I did really miss my homesick. I told my hubby. Then we have decided to have me home to my hometown to get closer to my family. 

 
My hubby and I took MAS flight home to Penang.

Stay tuned for the following next episode...

 

Our child is a blessing.

As in the year of Monkey' 2016 has bringing us both to the big gift from God a great blessing.

I am an expecting mother to be to our precious child.

The joy of our love.

Parents - to - be.

Looking forward to our new baby to be born

in the year of Rooster' 2017 this year. 

I am 8 weeks old baby.

Our wedding photos

They are taken at Universal Studio, Jalan Ipoh Kuala Lumpur.

 I was barely only 4 months old pregnant bride to get in our shooting photography.

It was good to feel in that way.

We both decided not to make any wedding event because at first place we thought we wanted an event but in end after we found out we are having our 1st child. Then we prefer not to make it big as it is not our intention to do so. Moreover, nowadays wedding stuffs are quite expensive. We prefer to go with on our own. Traveling, Home and much more we can have. We are very much a modern couple.

We understand wedding event is a must in a once lifetime. One thing, we are done with our Registration of Marriage which is very important to us where God is our 1st witness. 

We do hope all of you do enjoy flipping at our wedding photos over here. 

 Stay tuned...for next more of photos to go still.

Marriage Life

Our Wedding Set

 We have been married for 3 years now in the year 2017.

#7yearsdatinglifetogether

#3yearsmarriagehusbandandwife

#10yearsofthedatingmarriagelife

Tying off our knots;

TieBow

 We both have been dated together for 7 years and we want to get hitched in the God's eyes by the day He has match made us in Heaven. Jesus is our first bride and we are His bridegrooms.

 We had our ROM (Registration of Marriage) last 3 years ago at the JPN (Jabatan Pejabat Negeri) @ Plaza Masalam Shah Alam, in the Selangor state. 

It was a beautiful Wednesday morning on the 15th April 2015 that day we just got married. 

We had a good time with our families to celebrate together.

Many thanks to my dad and mom, parents and siblings in law too.

Thanked God for having him in my life as a loving husband.

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There is a story behind this name,

TieCoffeeTeaBow

Our friends are always refer to us both, Coffee and Tea. Thus, I name us this special TieCoffeeTeaBow where we are meant for each other. Coffee refers to my darling, Henry and Tea represents me, Sue. Henry's skin is brown and my skin is yellow. 

Of course, we do come from the different races. Henry is a mixed of Sri Lankan & Tamil Indian man and I am pure Chinese woman. But one thing about us the same is we are from the silence world. 

We are belonging to the silence world and yet become a part of our lives together. The only one – we know in the silence world where we both always care for each other. The color of races is a gift by God and we love God for having us here. We are the same human all by equally.

May be some of you do think color of races is an issue. Let’s say I come from a silence world and I do have a hearing world too. I am the only one Deaf person in the family. I am very much fortunate to have a wonderful family whose love me for the person who I am. I am very much to the oralisam way where I am used to speak to everyone and only sign with my Deaf friends. My family does not know how to sign well. My mom signs a bit. And I love my cousins who do sign so well, accept the way I am and they are comfort to do that. They want me to feel their worlds, as we both are around the same age. We experienced the childhood life, we all were so cheeky monkeys, rascals, crazy go after ever and much more we did together. We cousins are much alike one in siblings’ love. I have multi-races in my family. And when it comes to my love life, it might be a little strange I have the opposite race who loves me. Well, I have been observing things, people, world and much more around me. When I first dated Henry, my husband I knew there is no much far difference in our races. It is just the skin colors. Our hearts are the matter that most of all time.

Somehow, Henry is the other side for who he is. He is a simply man does not bother at all. Everything is a gift by God. He is so blessed with a wonderful family. He is the 3rd Deaf generation in the family. All his siblings do sign and his mother uses visual gestures where he is completely understood. He has had lead a normal childhood where he is used to have much fun with his many cousins and life is not an obstacle to him.  He comes to understand life is a journey where everybody stands on his or her own feet’s.

Love conquers all. Love is no boundaries at all despite of crossing this two special of different culture in us.

How we have known to each other?
Fact : We both have known to each other in the same high school at Tanjung Bungah in Penang. We were in the different classes by 4 years apart. I was quite a popular girl back in the old schooling days. Being the only studious girl in class. There is no love on my side though every of my gal friend has their love stories to share with.  I was an ugly betty is known among the boys. I wore a big glasses, skinny and geek girl. I played sports and of course I hate sports as well.  He is the other one who loves sports so much and very well in all games he has taken in every part. He was so popular and being the brilliant boy in the school too!  He wore his school uniform smartly all time. I never saw such an Indian boy who looks always neat. He has had his first love who would make every teacher has the big headache despite of his crazy in love. By the time being, it was something that I could feel that I once liked him and knowing that it was impossible. As the time has been passed by, he has had completed his SPM (O level) and left of few years later I have completed my high school then.

How I met him?

It has late in the year 2008, where I was first time introduced to the world of social media. I was 24 years old then. It is the FaceBook I have signed up. I uploaded many gorgeous pictures. I love taking pictures. And of course, my FaceBook was mainly open to my family members. I never thought of that old friends would appear in that social media way. I was then shocked and found another way to find my old friends and rekindle the friendship back then. I was so much fun and busy with my own life having a wonderful high jump with my friends I have missed the tons of fun since I was in teen time. Graduation from college and heartbroken relationship with my 2 years of hearing boyfriend. I have worked with wonderful company and colleagues. Came back from Japan has been transformed my whole life where I was busy focusing on my hectic lifestyle. Until one day I browsed my FaceBook page, spotted an upcoming message on the right top I open to read. First, I looked at the name and it was so surprised me and I never expected that much. It was Henry in his full name. His message is a kind of flirty one. I was very much fun to have a good time responded to him back.  He spelled out my full name well.  To my unbelievable I got my school magazine to see whether I see it in real or not. And I verify yes it is he was. Oh my gosh! I told God it could not him after I have several dated guys but none of them was successful. He has asked for my phone number and we exchanged. God has spoken to me; it was he who would be my forever one. I never expected that he would come into my life that ever since.


How I met her?

I was first time introduced to the world of social media by my sister. It was kind of freak thing to me as I was new to the technology for my age that time. I was 28 years old on that time. My life was moving slow back then. I was enjoying to lead a normal life where I was kind of a laid back person I would miss much of things around. Till I found her, she was so beautiful from whom I have known as an ugly betty back in high school days. God has spoke to me many times, I chose her as my life partner. I never thought it was she who would changes my life. Every day I was so crazy at her and she means a lot to me.

 

The relationship of our love;

I was somewhat like who does not serious of love matter in my life. Henry has finally opened up my wretched heart I have lost in the past and he has brought me to understand what a life means. He even showers me much of love, tender, patience, and understanding and yet he is a true man to heart. He has helped me to build a foundation life where I could see the optimize side. He is the best partner I have ever had who can lend a shoulder to lean for.  -Sue

I was so crazy to love her, Sue my life. I would have asked her many ton of time to be my girlfriend. She was not that simply woman I have ever tried to seduce off away. She was then so busy with her own life than thinking of a love would come to her! I was so much hard to win her heart. I took 4 hrs bus ride just want to meet her in person after such a long time. In fact, we both were from the same high school but we never had the chance to speak to each other. Looking from a distance, I knew she was a bright student in the school. And I never thought she is my life I found the beautiful side of her I began to love all. -Henry

Of course, there this relationship we do love, care, doubt, envy, and argue. But still we both have the basic of foundation where we always bring the issues to talk about and solve it at once. Love does always rekindle in any time and anywhere. Love is always patient and pure.

The rest is history…